On the flip side though, it's a rough night when a girl goes on about herself at length without asking me anything about myself.I like it best when someone can counter me with questions of their own." —Noah A."Don't hate on other girls.
If you want something, be specific and avoid causing yourself unnecessary stress.
Have you ever had the experience of liking a woman, being a perfect gentleman, and treating her like a queen, only to have her reject you in favor of someone else (possibly very handsome) who doesn't treat her right, or doesn't seem to care about her much at all? This article will give you, the nice guy, some tips on how to use charm-boy traits to your advantage, while retaining your nice-guy values. They follow their own rules and don't let others (including their dates) walk all over them. Suggest some "safe" ideas on the spur of the moment; for example, "Let's go get some sushi/ice cream/a Margarita," or, "Let's go for a drive and see where we end up." If this is not the usual "you," you may enjoy your new-found spontaneity.
These kinds of men have been called "bad boys," "charm boys," or "players." When you are interested in women, do they tend to see you as a friend or "brother" rather than a romantic interest? You can be mysterious/unpredictable without violating your principles.
If you're flowing with it and cool, we've got a winner.
If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.